The Future of Dating Belongs to High-Achieving Men who Use Instagram Ads
And with 55.4% users being women - will you let opportunity pass to another man? 👇
WATCH me build a DATING FUNNEL
How Does a Modern Dating Funnel Work?
Step 1 – Top of Funnel (Awareness): Build Your Instagram Page
In marketing, the top of the funnel is where people first discover your brand.
In dating, your Instagram page is your storefront. It’s not just random selfies — it’s a page crafted to attract the kind of women you want.
Think of it like packaging:
Show status (cool experiences, not bragging but natural).
Show lifestyle (travel, hobbies, social events).
Show masculine energy & fashion (good photos, style).
Show kindness & humour (friends, fun moments, light captions).
👉 This makes women curious and want to “click in” — just like good branding makes customers want to check out a product.
Step 2 – Middle of Funnel (Traffic & Engagement): Bring Women to Your Page
In marketing, companies run ads to bring people to their store or website.
In dating, you can run Instagram ads or grow your reach so women see and engage with your profile.
Those Ads can be extremely targeted: E.g: Women who use Instagram in the Russian Language
The goal here isn’t “selling” yet. It’s just getting traffic: likes, follows, DMs.
👉 More eyes on your page = more women who pre-qualify themselves by engaging.
Step 3 – Bottom of Funnel (Conversion): Text & Set Dates
In marketing, this is when the lead buys.
In dating, this is when you turn online attention into real-life dates.
Your page is designed to trigger attraction, curiosity mystery and also show your relatable side.
Use a simple texting framework (no games, no fake lines):
Comfort — text in a natural, relaxed way, not trying to impress.
Clarity — suggest a date simply (“Let’s grab a coffee this week”).
Follow-through — lock in time and place.
👉 That’s the “conversion”: an actual date.
You’ve built wealth. Now build the relationships you deserve.
The world has changed — whether you like it or not. Today, if your life isn’t visible online, to most women… you simply don’t exist. You could be successful, interesting, or ambitious — but if your lifestyle isn’t apparent, the women you want won’t notice you.
The reality is this: the most attractive, high-value women are not findable on dating apps — period.
CASE STUDIES BELOW
These Entrepreneurs Enjoy An Effortless Dating Life
— Moritz, running instagram Ads instead of swiping
"In Instagram I date the actual 10s! Never found these women in dating apps"
Visit his instagram profile: @wintermoritz
— Adam, dating and social circle solved
"Everyone noticed my transformation"
Visit his instagram profile: @adamdimitro
— Tiemo, attracted a network of stunning women using instagram
"I finally network with the people I wanted to"
Visit his instagram profile: @tiemoreim
— Szabi, goes on 3 dates a week
"Last week I was in 3 dates..."
Visit his instagram profile: @szabi.sinka
About Filipe
For years, I chased dates the hard way. Cold approaches, dancing classes or night clubs.
Those ways may work, but are what I call "low ROI", "low leverage". They all lack the ability to position me as the chooser. And without a social circle and world to invite women into my approaches did not "convert".
On dating apps, I’d match with women who looked great on paper, but the connection wasn’t there — and the women I actually wanted to meet, the beautiful, high-value ones, always seemed just out of reach.
Everything shifted when I stopped treating dating like a numbers game and started treating myself like a brand and dating as a funnel problem.
Coming from the corporate world, I already knew how positioning and perception drive success.
As a photographer, I understood how visuals create desire. I combined those two worlds — strategy and image — and built myself into a man whose lifestyle spoke for itself.
Once my Instagram evolved into a curated brand — not fake, not try-hard, but an authentic representation of the life I was leading — dating stopped being a grind. I wasn’t chasing anymore. Women wanted in on the world I was creating.
Now, I mentor men how to do the same. How to position themselves online with authority. How to use their Instagram not as a gallery of random selfies, but as a magnetic brand women are drawn to.
When your lifestyle is presented correctly it does the work for you.
STILL NOT SURE?
Frequently Asked Questions
But what if I don't have time for dating?
That’s exactly why you need it. If you’re too busy now, imagine being stuck in the same place a year from today. We built this so you can grow your online presence from your phone, in small windows of time — waiting for a train, on a coffee break, between meetings.
If you can find 15 minutes, you can move forward. Time won’t appear — you create it.
And if you still think you don't have time - we are sorry to tell you that, but another man will make the time and date your dream woman.
Do you get followers for me?
No, we don't, but we build a funnel that gets them for you. Real followers - real people. All using our engagement strategies and the participation of other members of our community
Do I need thousands of followers to go on dates?
Not at all! Most of our students achieve top results with around 150 followers.
Do you run the Instagram Ads for me?
We run them with you! Our coaching is personal and connected every day during the process, so you know exactly how Ads work, how to optimise them and most importantly - how to convert traffic into dates.
But women will notice I am running Ads?!
Funny enough, no. Most people have the attention of a fish nowadays and most women will think they saw an organic post.
Do you do looks maxing?
We dial in your fashion and grooming so your look and presentation are at their peak. And we keep it real — no filters, no gimmicks, just authentic tactics and photography that showcase the best version of you.
Do I need to organise events?
No — you don’t have to. Instagram alone can help you build visibility and attract women.
But here’s the thing: organising events is one of the fastest ways to grow a social circle, build credibility, and create real-life experiences women want to be part of.
Whether it’s a fashion photoshoot, a yoga night, a brunch, or a small curated gathering, events give you social proof and show that you’re a man who creates a lifestyle, not just consumes it.
When you host or are part of these experiences, the most incredible women naturally gravitate toward you — and it’s all organic.
Events are less about “networking” and more about demonstrating that you live a life worth stepping into.
Book Your Call
apply for a Free instagram audit
Filipe will personally review your social & dating funnel.
You will get a 3-step plan to level up your mindset, fashion and online presence
Learn how to build an emotional connection and what might be preventing you from dating the woman of your dreams
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